Annoyance come along the distance from unknown to know, no familiar to accustom. The only solution is, learn what you can reach, to pass the distance. The process of learn, is somehow the greatest gift to us. Once you pass it, you will learn to appreciate it. Somehow, we can not stop in the pass, we have to move, this lead to another annoyance.
To acomplish the learning cycle, we need "wu wei", wu wei mean "doing nothing", by understand "wu wei", you understand that whatever you do, it produce nothing (even if you bom the earth, it have no effect to the universal). It is just a matter that you have some will, and you want it to be done. And let get it done. But make sure that you bound to ten commandment, because we are too ignorance to know who create it yet, some say God, while I don't know.
人的烦恼，往往来自未知和已知的距离、习惯和不习惯的距离。解决的方法往往就是拉近未知和已知的距离、习惯和不习惯的距离。能够做到的，叫做无为。
